I think people do create their soulmates - or, make their lover their soulmate - by being willing to accept that person, communicating openly to make the relationship function well, and adjusting their goals in life to include that person. Basically, both people choosing to love their partner as their soulmate kind of makes them such.
But you also have to find someone who is in a place where they will let you into their life in that way.
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Date: 2009-12-02 07:14 pm (UTC)I think people do create their soulmates - or, make their lover their soulmate - by being willing to accept that person, communicating openly to make the relationship function well, and adjusting their goals in life to include that person. Basically, both people choosing to love their partner as their soulmate kind of makes them such.
But you also have to find someone who is in a place where they will let you into their life in that way.
So. A little of both.
This wasn't very coherent at all. Huh.